They are tearing down the school next door to my childhood home.
That is a loaded sentence which only begins to define the magic I found growing up next to Favorite Hill Elementary School. We lived in a big, old house that had its own ghost and almost three acres of wild, overgrown yard in which to fuel the imagination. A six-foot fence was the sim divider between that yard and the school.
When I was four, maybe five, I would shinny up a tree next to the chain-link fence — the prickly top of the fence was bent down there because we used that tree to climb over the fence — and just sit there, watching the kids at recess. I wanted to go so much.
I did, eventually, for five years before being bused across school to finish elementary school. I remember the name of every teacher I had from kindergarten — we only went half-days and I was a champion sleeper so went in the afternoons — through fourth grade. OK, I forget the music teacher’s name. And the art one. But we only had one teacher each year and they were Mrs. Overholser, Mrs. Buecker, Mrs. Cain, Mrs. Sweigart and Mrs. Wilcox. I did have reading with Mrs. Palsgrove in fourth grade.
My mom was on the PTA, president for a chunk of the time I was there, and there were school fairs and plays and spelling bees. I remember having some kind of drill in second grade and having to be outside for a while. I saw my mom at the fence, which was technically farther from the school where the lower grades could play — big kids only! — but I ran out there only to find she was talking to my teacher. “Here she comes,” my mom told me she said to the teacher. It was far for short legs, but just a run home for me.
But most of the magic happened when classes were out. We used that yard like it was our own, back in the day before schools were fenced in and off-limits. We played baseball and home run derby and football on the big field, which ran 80 yards from street to the west fence. My grandma donated that field to the school, and for that reason, I grew up on Ford Drive which was named after her.
We hit golf balls and threw frisbees there. Sometimes, we had actual baseball practice with our Midget and Little League teams — mostly my brother practiced and I helped because I was a girl and couldn’t play until I was 11 years old. Because I was denied the game I loved, some of my earliest memories are of being discriminated against just because I was a girl. Once I was allowed to play, I made the All-Star team. Take that, men.
We spent a happy childhood in the dirt and on the playground. I think I was 10 when I ripped my elbow open ‘flying’ on the merry-go-round. Twice.
I know I was 10 when I hit my tennis ball on the roof and the janitor let me climb up and get it. Yes, you read that right. He knew we already climbed on the roof all the time.
I rode skateboards with Greg around the school, and soaped the windows with Diane. I stood at the top of the rickety monkey bars and tried to knock them down. Everyone did. They stood for decades. I jumped off the top of the slide, skinning my knees in the white gravel.
Later, when I went to bigger schools for bigger kids and no longer threw a tennis ball against the red brick walls for hours, I held hands and kissed boys near the schoolyard in my backyard. I zoomed across the field on mopeds, sometimes with boys and sometimes alone. I took my nephew to play in the schoolyard where I grew up.
It has been many years, decades, since I had a schoolyard in my backyard. I still drive past it when I get home, which is not often.
I always smile.